THE FREEDOM PROJECT
Provides support, awareness & recovery programmes designed for survivors of domestic abuse:
11 week Freedom Programme 12 week Toolkit Recovery Programme
availiable to women from:
Brandwood Druids Heath Kings Norton Billesley Northfield
If you are a woman seeking a place on one of our programmes or would like to find out more information please call Jacky or Donna on
Tel: 0121 624 5775
Monday to Thursday 9.30am – 5 pm
Friday 9.30am – 4pm
If you are an agency wanting to refer someone please note that we cannot call women on your behalf. Instead please give them our details so that they can self refer if they wish to do so.
Women’s safety is our priority and if the abuser is in their house when we call this will put them at further risk.
The 11 week programme is open to women 16+ who want to learn more about the reality of domestic violence and abuse in relationships. Each session runs for 2 hours per week and looks at all the different characters and controlling behaviours of the abuser.
The aims of the Freedom Programme are:
ñ To help women understand the beliefs held by abusive men and in doing so, recognise which of these beliefs they have shared
ñ To illustrate the effects of domestic violence on children
ñ To assist women to recognise potential future abusers and assist in breaking the cycle of violence
ñ To help women gain self-esteem and the confidence to improve the quality of their lives
ñ To introduce women to the community resources
Week 1 – Introduction – the Dominator
Week 2 – The Bully
Week 3 – The Bad father
Week 4 – Effects on Children
Week 5 – The Jailer
Week 6 – The Headworker
Week 7 – The Sexual Contoller
Week 8 – King of The Castle
Week 9 – The Liar
Week 10 -The Persuader
Week 11 – Early Warning Signs
TOOLKIT RECOVERY PROGRAMME
The Recovery Toolkit is 12 week course that builds on itself week by week. It aims to help women to recover from the psychological trauma of being in an abusive relationship. This is a follow on for women who have completed the Freedom Programme.
Week 1 – Introductions
Week 2 – What is abuse and recognising the warning signs
Week 3 – Introduction to Self Esteem
Week 4 – Coping with the psychological distress. Bill of Rights
Week 5 – The affects of abuse on children and parenting skills
Week 6 – Raising self esteem through affirmations and positive self talk
Week 7 – Anger, conflict and how to be assertive
Week 8 – Anger, conflict and assertiveness revisited
Week 9 – Identifying boundaries and how to put them in place.
Week 10 – Loss and what can be reclaimed. Review of the Bill of Rights
Week 11 – Recognising warning signs and handling intimacy.
Week 12- Measuring the increase in self esteem and celebrating success
Where funding allows groups take part in other self development activities.
During the last year groups have taken part in:
ñ A 12 week Art Project in partnership with Fluid Space culminating in an exhibition of their art work
ñ A 7 week Poetry Performance Project ‘Free Speech’ in partnership with ‘Speak Up Write Down’ culminating in a book of poems which was presented at an event at The Roadhouse
ñ Zumba classes
ñ Social Fabric Art Project – artwork exhibited at the mac
ñ ‘Million women Rise’ march and rally in central London
ñ One Billion Rising – Event Demanding An End To Violence Against Women & Girls
ñ 8 week Cycling Project
For further information and to discuss the programmes in confidence please call
Jacky or Donna on 07868163103
Comments from women who have attended previous programmes:
I now know that I am not to blame and this is not my fault
This programme is one of the best things that I have ever done in my life. It is filtering through to all my other relationships
I now realise that I didn’t deserve to be treated the way I was and that he was to blame, not me
At first I was requested to go by social worker but I realised within the first few sessions that I was being abused and so were my children.
The whole experience was great, I met other great women and I learnt a lot about abusive tactics.
I’ve regained my confidence, I’m able to do as I please and be myself. I’m more aware of tactics of a dominator
I’m more confident and outgoing, I no longer think of my life as empty and useless.
It has been a very valuable and worthwhile experience and I have suggested it to other women I know
Each week my eyes were opened up more and more
I met others who had been through the same as me, Knowing I wasn’t the only one made me realise that it wasn’t my fault
I feel so much better about myself, more confident, more sociable and happier
I used to make excuses for him, now I realise that he knows exactly what he’s doing, he is in full control of his actions
I feel like a better person and have a better chance of getting my children back as I know I will not be in this situation again
I have so much extra knowledge now and am able to tell people exactly what he did, I couldn’t put it into words before.
I didn’t have any idea that I was a victim of DV, I now know that I was abused and I now know all the early warning signs of an abusive man.
I now have no contact with my ex and I am so much stronger.
Learning that I am not alone and that it was not my fault and that I couldn’t change him was an eye opener for me
I think it is important that we all learn about domestic violence as sometimes we don’t even realise we are being abused. I now know it wasn’t normal behaviour
I wish I had have learned this at school
I was so confused about what was happening to me, I now I realise that that was his aim. We are easier to control when we are confused
It helped me regain my self worth as I was finally getting the right support
I learned that its ok to laugh, its ok to cry and its ok to feel, we laughed a lot. It was knowing laughter
I was living in fear and oppression, the programme was a lifesaver
The programme gave me the courage and support to leave my partner
I have met so many other women that have been through the same as me, I didn’t realise it happened to so many others
I feel so much better within myself and feel confident in spotting abusive behaviours and tactics
Have a clearer understanding of what a healthy relationship looks like
I know what to look out for now, I understand the very subtle early warning signs
It is great to talk to people who understand
I believed that I loved him and that the abuse was normal. I now realise that he was abusive and that it was not normal behaviour and that I deserve better
The programme has helped me so much, I now know that it wasn’t my fault and that he is to blame not me.
I finally gave up on the hope of him changing. Why would he when is abuse gets him rewards!
I no longer feel to blame for how I was treated. I realised that he believes he’s right and that he’s entitled to treat me this way. Society backs up his beliefs too
I have finally realised my own strength and courage and that there is life after him!
I have opened up so much since coming to the group. I am a new person
I learned that being hit isn’t the only meaning of domestic abuse
I feel empowered and am now doing a degree
I feel stronger and more alert and more aware of abusive behaviour
Love the group discussions, I’m glad I eventually came.
Feels good to be part of a group and not feeling so alone
I am starting to value myself and have returned to work
I realised that I am not imagining it after all, just because my marks cant be seen doesn’t mean it hasn’t happened. My scars are inside but are starting to heal
It gave me the courage to leave my abusive partner
Feel less isolated now and am more confident
I realise that ‘I matter’ and that I deserve to live a life without fear
I feel safer and no longer walk on eggshells and nor do my children
I have learned that abuse is a choice, he chose to abuse me